On Fateby Jwei Lih

Sometimes I hear the words, "if they're really meant to be..." and I would want to barf or do whatever uncharacteristically unhumorously evil thing a cynic like me would do. <BR><BR>If they're really meant to be-- is just like saying, "whatever fate or destiny decides or say so... goes." <BR><BR>That is crap, in my opinion. <BR><BR>Why oh why the heck do you submit yourselves into the command of some invisible, uncontrollable force that's powered by mere chance?! <BR><BR>Thus, implying that whatever good or bad happens in our life-- is not our doing...? <BR><BR>We're DESIGNED, not DESTINED-- and though some may not see a significant difference between the two words... they don't mean the same thing...